I know you are far away from me. I couldn’t get a chance to celebrate your birthday with you. But God gave me an opportunity to see you by WhatsApp. There are no words to describe my love for you. You teach me how to overcome failure and also you teach me to dealing the different situations came into our life. You are a great example of a true human being in my life.
I hope you know, how blessed I feel to have you in my life. I am very proud to be your daughter.
You are my biggest supporter. Thank you for supporting me in my every ambition and helping me get through them. You always taught me to never give up. I promise you I won’t ever give up!
When I was young, My grandma was teaching me one lesson through our daily playing activities.
She divided four groups. Each group has 5 members. We were cousins. So, she just gives some notes and she explains how we have to play. It’s a group activity, but most of them are individually play.
When our team fails, we will get extra challenges need to finish. So, every team gets only 1 hour play. So, we have to finish everything within one hour. Who are finish faster than other teams? They are the winners.
So, it’s quiet challenging and excited. Because every team looking forward to win the game.
But, at last she announced the winners of the team.
When the time has come, we all eagerly waiting for our score card.
My uncles and aunts, everyone gives individual points. The total score will be show us the winners.
One day, we play everything faster than all teams. But the score card shows, we were moving to the second place. Why? Every one of my team disappointed. Because, we did everything in the best way and faster than the other team.
My grandma announced the winner, we were shocked. Because, they finished their game slower than other teams. How it’s happening.
We all get upset. Suddenly my grandma said, every other team did well and faster. But this team was perfectly done everything within one hour. They give every second, entertaining and extra works and also they consider their time. But you all looking forward the time, but forget about the input and involvement of your work. That’s why you all others failed.
Then we realized, she was right.
We are only looking for success. We forget about our happiness.
Nowadays we all are looking for a reply or response from who
mostly we loved.
Yes, we don’t need to feel if it’s not an important person.
But the time the message always, we do, who we love most.
I really go through this path. Not in once it’s been more
I also really do this same. Because sometimes I send any
message to someone and he/she didn’t send me back within a minute or even
seconds, I feel, why they didn’t send a message?
That time we are like a detective. Seriously. Then our mind
He/She didn’t wake up?
Then suddenly mind said, No, they woke up already because
today they have worked. Most of the day they wake up early and I know they
first take the phone and check their messages, then what happen about my
He/she is working now maybe they
will send back within an hour. And after an hour check the message and think,
why no response?
Again mind will say… something
going on, maybe I did say anything wrong at last night?
He/she reads the message, but no response,
then we feel suddenly hawoo… it’s not about at last night talk or anything.
Then mind said, they read your
message, but no response, why? They ignore or they have other important more
He/she didn’t reply after two hours or until evening, then we think omg
it’s too long, so, type our emotional messages at least 5 or 6 may be more
Then we beg them or ask them to please
call me back
Then we call them. May be, they cut
the call, then we think why?
Then we take a decision I don’t
want to talk anymore, I didn’t think that you will do like this. So much pain
you share at one time.
After that He/she call you back and
said I am sorry I was at work meeting or with family I couldn’t make it. Sorry.
Then what next……
Of course we say that it’s okay, no
problem, But you know what at least you can send a message then I can understand.
But any way you call me, that’s fine.
This is life, Just think like this.
If again any problem come into your life thinks easily, don’t imagine in your
own way, it will make life complicated. May be most of the relationship going
like this. But is that person really loves you they will call you or message
you one day. So, don’t chase them every day if they didn’t send any reply on
your message. May be they have some problem in their life. After they will come
to you. If they won’t come to you, don’t feel bad, because your love is
important for someone else. The perfect time the perfect one will come to you.
Don’t take any decision on when you
angry or sad. Keep this in your mind.
Today I would like to talk about what the faith leads you in your life.
Our god always gives a hope in every situation.
Your struggle and faith always related together. Because, where are you struggle, whether it is big or small, from the time your faith will be growing in your mind. It is very important in our lifetime. Your problem will go away, if you have a faith in God. The Bible gives more examples;
“If you have faith as small as a mustard seed, you can say to this mulberry tree, ‘Be uprooted and planted in the sea,’ and it will obey you. Luke 17:6
You overcome your problem. For that means Jesus wins from the world.
John 16: 33 said, “I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.”
And he gives a hope always. He won’t leave you in your struggle situation. Because he said;
It is the Lord who goes before you. He will be with you; he will not leave you or forsake you. Do not fear or be dismayed.” Deuteronomy 31:8