Overcome failure

When I was young, My grandma was teaching me one lesson through our daily playing activities.

She divided four groups. Each group has 5 members. We were cousins. So, she just gives some notes and she explains how we have to play. It’s a group activity, but most of them are individually play.

When our team fails, we will get extra challenges need to finish. So, every team gets only 1 hour play. So, we have to finish everything within one hour. Who are finish faster than other teams? They are the winners.

So, it’s quiet challenging and excited. Because every team looking forward to win the game.

But, at last she announced the winners of the team.

When the time has come, we all eagerly waiting for our score card.

My uncles and aunts, everyone gives individual points. The total score will be show us the winners.

One day, we play everything faster than all teams. But the score card shows, we were moving to the second place. Why? Every one of my team disappointed. Because, we did everything in the best way and faster than the other team.

My grandma announced the winner, we were shocked. Because, they finished their game slower than other teams. How it’s happening.

We all get upset. Suddenly my grandma said, every other team did well and faster. But this team was perfectly done everything within one hour. They give every second, entertaining and extra works and also they consider their time. But you all looking forward the time, but forget about the input and involvement of your work. That’s why you all others failed.

Then we realized, she was right.

We are only looking for success. We forget about our happiness.

Gathsamana

Love From Heaven

My Grandma told me. One day I will achieve my goal.

Then I asked her: Grandma, When I will achieve my dream?

Grandma answered: If you have a patience to wait till god’s timing, you will achieve more than you expected.

I asked her: Any reason behind this?

She answered: Yes, of course. There has a good reason always. God is looking for your work and patience. God knows already about what you are thinking now. So, fully trust in him. Never lose your confident middle of your journey. Always concentrate on what you are doing. Don’t give up.

I told her: I will do my best, Grandma.

Then she blessed me.

You know what? Whenever I talk to her, she makes me to up and build my confidence in high.

She is my best best Friend always.

I miss her a lot. But she is always in my heart. I always remember her smile. Lovely and strong person.

I couldn’t get more time to spend with her. But she gave everything and all guidance to my entire life.

I know she is always with me.

A Good Story! 💕😊👵

When I was a child, my grandma always used to tell the stories.

She makes story herself without any errors.

She has a better ability to present the story in an excellent way.

My grandma says, if you want to tell the best stories, assign good points and positive conclusion.

It’s not a trick to convince others, but also, it’s a method of keeps someone in great expectation and make them happy and hopeful.

Maybe there have many regrets or disappointments in our stories, but finally God will always make us win and we fight against the battles and we will succeed. So, make sure in your stories also you make this as a reality.

She constantly says, if you want to be a good speaker, you should be a good listener and also you must be a good story teller with great manner.

Thank you all reading this post. Hope you are enjoying.

Makes Something Meaningful

Once upon a time a girl decides to travel new cities and she needs to learn the different reality in others mind. Her dream her ambition, everything different than from others. But she always make a time for her to understand her surround.

One day she met an 77 year old lady. Her name is Marge. Suddenly she surprised and she realized that same as her grandma. She came and sit in front of her. Then introduce herself and ask about the girl. The girl said her name and introduce about herself also. Within one day they were close each other and knowing that they are good friends and some similarity between them. After one month The girl knows about Marge that she was suffering so much in her life, but she was happy and satisfied her life and also she enjoys with herself with her own hobbies and walking.

She always carries her trolley bag. Sometimes the girl asks her why you carry this trolley bag with you wherever you go?

She said every day she comes out with this trolley bag to buy groceries. But the girl realized that, every day she takes the trolley bag with her, because she is finding new hope and her life want to fulfill with her daily habits. Really Marge is a great woman. The girl is enjoying their relationship. Because the Marge is like her grandma. When her grandma died after that she didn’t meet anyone like her grandma. But when she met Marge, She became her grandma.

It’s so touching and inspiring the girl’s life.

Mother Love :)

Once upon a time, My mother was working in one of the top Insurance agencies, when I was studying 5th standard, I was very happy to tell everyone that my mom working women and well my mom is also a great mother in the Home. She woke up every morning 4.30 and First she went to the living room and sing a praise to God and Pray first, And she went to refresh and make a tea and serve my father. My father always calls my mom once he didn’t get a tea in bed, that time I was thinking why he always call my mom for bed tea? Because she busy with cooking for breakfast, lunch. But she never says anything and serve everyone. I really want to say my mother is a good person. I know every mother like this. But as a daughter of my mom, I want to tell my mother she was nice.

My grandma said once a day, when I was studying in the Nursery, My mom went to Job, but she didn’t tell before she goes, because that was the first day of her job, maybe she thought if  I was crying if she is going to a  job. Then that was the day I woke up early, but my mom already gone for a job. My grandma did everything for me, feed me, she took me to bath,  She played with me. But my grandma said, I didn’t cry or I didn’t even ask where is my mom. She was surprised. But I always look at the clock at the living room in every one hour. Because the clock bird makes a noise in every one hour. And my grandma thinks why I was doing these. After  5.30pm when I have seen my mom walking from the gate, I was very happy and smiled and tried to open the front door, but couldn’t. And when my grandma opens the door, I was suddenly changed my smile and run and hug my mom and my mom also so worried and happy to see me. And I was walking around my mom wherever she goes. Then My mom didn’t go to Job for a few years. When I was studying 5th standard I was telling my mom go mom and do the job. Because she sacrificed her career for me. So, after that I learned to do everything own my way and my mom teach me everything in very young age.  When I came back from school, I make tea for everyone. Sometimes I make snacks. But my grandma always supports me. She is always trying my food. She like my tea.

Every Saturday my mom took me for an  outing. It was a very good time. I can’t forget. We went to an ice cream shop and had our favorite Falooda or Fruit salad. And I was buying good books. My mom also buying good books. Then Saturday night we were watching movie at night. My father always said  Saturday morning to evening, my wife and daughter not at home, they were busy with their world. My mom is my best friend, and my father is my first love.

My father gives a freedom for my mother and me.  He respects my mother. That is the main think I learned from my father. Respect each other.

And I wish my mom Happy mothers day…. God Bless you….

My grandma is no more. But I send my wishes to heaven, Love you grandma…. I miss you a lot.

Grandma…

One word will make us strong,

Grandma talk with youngsters

Will encourage them in their work.

If grandparents were living in their last times,

They want to meet us and that was their wish,

Go and make them happy as soon as possible.

 

When I saw my grandma in her last times….

I just touch her hand and called…

She expressed her love in her words and called my name…

That time I was blessed.

 

Just share old memories with her and beautiful moments spent with her,

That will make you confident and completion of the life with grandma.

She doesn’t expect anything from you, but she needs to see you.

If you spend with 1 hour with your grandma, she will happy and satisfied her life with her family.

Please make her happy….

Thank you….