Overcome failure

When I was young, My grandma was teaching me one lesson through our daily playing activities.

She divided four groups. Each group has 5 members. We were cousins. So, she just gives some notes and she explains how we have to play. It’s a group activity, but most of them are individually play.

When our team fails, we will get extra challenges need to finish. So, every team gets only 1 hour play. So, we have to finish everything within one hour. Who are finish faster than other teams? They are the winners.

So, it’s quiet challenging and excited. Because every team looking forward to win the game.

But, at last she announced the winners of the team.

When the time has come, we all eagerly waiting for our score card.

My uncles and aunts, everyone gives individual points. The total score will be show us the winners.

One day, we play everything faster than all teams. But the score card shows, we were moving to the second place. Why? Every one of my team disappointed. Because, we did everything in the best way and faster than the other team.

My grandma announced the winner, we were shocked. Because, they finished their game slower than other teams. How it’s happening.

We all get upset. Suddenly my grandma said, every other team did well and faster. But this team was perfectly done everything within one hour. They give every second, entertaining and extra works and also they consider their time. But you all looking forward the time, but forget about the input and involvement of your work. That’s why you all others failed.

Then we realized, she was right.

We are only looking for success. We forget about our happiness.

Gathsamana

Nothing is Impossible with God

When I was a little, I visit my grandparents home very often. Because, they were living other place which is far from my home. We tried to go and visit our grandparents twice in a year whenever we got school holidays.

I am very excited and loved to visit my grandparents. They are very kind and innocent people living in the village. The house of my grandparents, it’s located in the hillside and top of that, around the house full of trees and their farm and their garden and full of fruits such as Mango, Jackfruit, Guava, Mulberry, Rose apple, Lemon, and there have a lot of Cashew nut trees. It’s all my grandparents farm. And we don’t want to buy any vegetable from outside. Because everything we will get from their vegetable garden. I really love to visit my grandparents huge and fruitful place, it’s totally 5 acres and more. We don’t know exactly. But Never we have disappointed or bored when we reached there.

One of my school holidays I went in there with my parents. My mom’s family is very large. Because she has 8 siblings. She is the youngest. So, absolutely I have elder cousin sisters and brothers too.One day my grandma told us about one of the biblical messages. It is Luke 1:37

For with God nothing shall be impossible.

The Bible

Every evening, my grandma will tell a story. Then she explained about this verse. Do you want to make something bigger than your imagination? Just remember, pray to God and he will give everything. He is the one only possible way to your destination. Now you all are children. But remember, one day you all will grow up and understand this world is full of opportunities, but some guilty ways there and of course sometimes you feel you can’t achieve something. But don’t focus negativity. Just observe yourself what God wants? And Pray then You will get an idea and solution how to achieve from impossible. God can turn your weakness to success.

At last she added one more thing.

I know my dears; you all will remember me even after I died. Because, you all love me so much deeper than my children. And of course, I love you so much my Grandchildren’s more than anyone. So, love yourself too, and Ask God, he will give you everything. When you feel alone, he will comfort you. When you feel I lost no hope there? Listen, God can do everything possible. Nothing to worry. You will win. And my grandma kissed me and said. I know you more than anyone. By God’s grace you will achieve your all dream my dear. God bless you.

Now I really miss my grandma. Because she left us in 2010. But I know she always with me. And her loving lessons and blessings. Love you grandma where ever you are I love you so much.

Picture: Bayfront Park

Blessing is Today or Tomorrow?

One day I asked my mother, Mom, Blessing is today or Tomorrow?

My mom said, Blessing is Today itself. Don’t wait tomorrow. Tomorrow you will get another blessing.

And she mentioned the bible verse Luke 10:25-28

The verse explain like this

On one occasion an expert in the law stood up to test Jesus. “Teacher,” he asked, “what must I do to inherit eternal life?” “What is written in the Law?” He replied. “How do you read it?” He answered, “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength and with all your mind’; and, ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’]” “You have answered correctly,” Jesus replied. “Do this and you will live.”

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Then she gave a detail:

How do you feel like when you read about this verse?

Then I said to my mom, we first love the Lord and Love people. And If anyone did wrong to you. Forgive them. Don’t take that in long ways.

Forgive others and Love the God. He will always take care of us and give eternal life.

Thank you mom you explain this story when I was 10 years old. So, It helps me nowadays to forgive others who are against me.

Thank you Jesus for everything.

Bayfront Park- Hamilton Ontario Canada

Mother’s Day

Dear My Mom,

   How many times I tell you about this. But It’s not enough.

Love you Mom.  These days I miss you. And I know you miss me too. But we are talking everyday and sharing our love. I know you are far away. But our memories never go away. It’s always play around us. 

You know, mom?

Sometimes old memories make me laugh. When we went to Grandpa Home, You always tell me not to climb into the trees. But I didn’t listen and most of the time I fell down. But, You never scold me. always you say I already told you don’t do that. But at last you just say It’s okay. Grandma never scolds me too. Because she was the ones do every work at home. Someone tried to help grandma, Grandma just makes them comfortable and said don’t do anything, it’s nothing more. Only little things I can do. Very sweet and kind person my Grandma.

And when I grew up, You gave me some home duties and said just make yourself comfortable and it will help you one day when you go from home far away. Yeah Now I can understand that’s right mom. You and my Grandma were the teachers. I learned cooking, cleaning, decorating, interior designing everything from you guys.

Not only that, You guys teach me how to be a humble and loving and Kind in every situation. Sometimes people ignore us. But Mom, you teach me how to forgive them. Because they don’t deserve that. But We deserve peace in our heart. Love you mom. When I came to Canada, Everything strange to me. But it wasn’t confused me or fear to me. I was able to adopt the new Culture and New opportunities.

I have a few friends here, But everyone is good hearted and Loving people.

And you did teach me to Pray first. So, I won’t get tired to Pray. In every situation, I pray for everyone.

I love You Mom And Grandma. Grandma, I know you are too far from this World. But when we meet again, I will tell you How much I love you. You already knew it. Because you are always with me.

Happy Mother’s Day…

Loving

Jeena George.

Mother Love :)

Once upon a time, My mother was working in one of the top Insurance agencies, when I was studying 5th standard, I was very happy to tell everyone that my mom working women and well my mom is also a great mother in the Home. She woke up every morning 4.30 and First she went to the living room and sing a praise to God and Pray first, And she went to refresh and make a tea and serve my father. My father always calls my mom once he didn’t get a tea in bed, that time I was thinking why he always call my mom for bed tea? Because she busy with cooking for breakfast, lunch. But she never says anything and serve everyone. I really want to say my mother is a good person. I know every mother like this. But as a daughter of my mom, I want to tell my mother she was nice.

My grandma said once a day, when I was studying in the Nursery, My mom went to Job, but she didn’t tell before she goes, because that was the first day of her job, maybe she thought if  I was crying if she is going to a  job. Then that was the day I woke up early, but my mom already gone for a job. My grandma did everything for me, feed me, she took me to bath,  She played with me. But my grandma said, I didn’t cry or I didn’t even ask where is my mom. She was surprised. But I always look at the clock at the living room in every one hour. Because the clock bird makes a noise in every one hour. And my grandma thinks why I was doing these. After  5.30pm when I have seen my mom walking from the gate, I was very happy and smiled and tried to open the front door, but couldn’t. And when my grandma opens the door, I was suddenly changed my smile and run and hug my mom and my mom also so worried and happy to see me. And I was walking around my mom wherever she goes. Then My mom didn’t go to Job for a few years. When I was studying 5th standard I was telling my mom go mom and do the job. Because she sacrificed her career for me. So, after that I learned to do everything own my way and my mom teach me everything in very young age.  When I came back from school, I make tea for everyone. Sometimes I make snacks. But my grandma always supports me. She is always trying my food. She like my tea.

Every Saturday my mom took me for an  outing. It was a very good time. I can’t forget. We went to an ice cream shop and had our favorite Falooda or Fruit salad. And I was buying good books. My mom also buying good books. Then Saturday night we were watching movie at night. My father always said  Saturday morning to evening, my wife and daughter not at home, they were busy with their world. My mom is my best friend, and my father is my first love.

My father gives a freedom for my mother and me.  He respects my mother. That is the main think I learned from my father. Respect each other.

And I wish my mom Happy mothers day…. God Bless you….

My grandma is no more. But I send my wishes to heaven, Love you grandma…. I miss you a lot.

Childhood never back but we can expect

Life change very soon, but Don’t forget the way where you are coming from.

Starting from the present:

Angel arrived new place she is new to that place. She doesn’t know anyone in that place. But, her cousin living in the place near to her. But no response from him.

She just always called that number, but the number always unavailable.

Past memories:

She and her cousin were a good friends and good brother and sister in this world. She plays with him, she fights with him, she feels like that is her own brother. He is also feeling like his own sister. She loved him more than he loved her. She remembered his birthday and send a gift to him. It is not more valuable sometimes, it’s only few amount,but she spent her little little coins for buying a gift for her brother. But she felt he was taking her gift always valuable. But she didn’t get any reply from his side. But she continuously sends him gifts and greeting card.

Childhood never back but we can expect

Their relatives tried to break up their relation. Sometimes their close relatives make fun with her, like why you always be a good sister for him?

But she didn’t response anything to them. She always makes a nice smile to them, but inside she cried. But she always needs his word like you are my sister no one can understand, but you will always my little sister.

But he is not replying to her like what she thought. After so many years gone, they are also going very far from their childhood, their close relatives made this. Or else their relatives want more their distance. But right now they are reaching near to near, but he won’t meet her. She is waiting for his words. She doesn’t know he will reply or not. But I promised her one day all things will change and she will get all the answers. She always prays for her brother and all relatives and friends.

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Sometimes it goes off the road, but it will come on the road…

We never like to remember the past,

But the moments will take you to there sometimes,

I saw the mark on the table that was our tea glass seal. It  won’t change. And I won’t forget.

It will take you somewhere and think about the moments once Again.

After a two years back my brother sends one message for me..

I am a person can’t forget anything.

So, this message takes me to our childhood.

So, I realized best and pure relation has never broken down anywhere

We would like to travel to different places,” Sometimes it goes off the road, but it will come on the road”, When they need petrol.

Without petrol vehicle can’t run. So, without perfect decision, you can’t make positive things in your life.

forest road wallpapers Fotor

 

 

Grandma…

One word will make us strong,

Grandma talk with youngsters

Will encourage them in their work.

If grandparents were living in their last times,

They want to meet us and that was their wish,

Go and make them happy as soon as possible.

 

When I saw my grandma in her last times….

I just touch her hand and called…

She expressed her love in her words and called my name…

That time I was blessed.

 

Just share old memories with her and beautiful moments spent with her,

That will make you confident and completion of the life with grandma.

She doesn’t expect anything from you, but she needs to see you.

If you spend with 1 hour with your grandma, she will happy and satisfied her life with her family.

Please make her happy….

Thank you….

 

Find the good Quality of Last Benchers.

When I was little, I was thinking all were care us

But, after that I realize, so much are coming and go,

But only few of them remembered.

They were so different from others.

I always remembered my class last Benchers.

They were so different, but care and honesty.

They were making laugh, when we disappointed.

They got scolding from teachers.

I don’t understand why they are like this?

But I trust they obey their teachers and respect girls.

That’s why, I always remembered their names.

I don’t know where they are right now.

But I know one thing they reached their own aim with their honesty.

Because they were not selfish and ego.

This is for my classmates who were sitting in last benches.